First off, I know that Jill over at Charming and Delightful tagged me for a meme, and I will get to it, I promise. I just couldn’t do two memes in a row.
I have been sick for a week. A nasty, lousy cold that has had me down and out. Which really stinks when my husband is on vacation. I’ve managed to get up and about and we’ve done a few things, but I’m still feeling pretty rotten. I wish it would up and go away now, ok, thanks.
It has occurred to me this week that I am not particularly happy these days. I am not enjoying my children like I should. Taking them places stresses me out, the amount of messes they make stresses me out, and I am just generally bitchy all the time. I do not want to feel this way all the time. I am inwardly FREAKING OUT over my husband being gone for 3 full days next week, because I am most certain that I will blow a gasket while he’s gone. The twins are a royal handful these days; there is no way to contain them short of putting them in their cribs or high chairs. And while having them in bed all day might solve some of my stress, I’m pretty certain that is downright bad parenting. Bad I tell you. And Meg and Drew. Those two make me lose my shit at least once an hour. Drew is Megan’s punching bag (and if I interfere, so am I); he is currently sporting a bruise on his right cheek from her throwing him to the floor, as well as a mark under his right eye from her smacking him in the car today. The spend the majority of their days screeching at each other and playing nicely together does not last long. With no husband to come home at lunch and soothe my nerves, and no husband to come home at night and tell me it’s ok, I may certainly go bonkers. I would love to say that this is a relatively new phenomenon, but it isn’t and I see no end in sight. I do not have any control in my house at all. I make rules, and they are mocked. I dole out punishments, and the same behavior happens again, almost immediately. In short, things here really blow and I’m so very tired of dealing with it.
There. I said it. I’m unhappy. I guess that doesn’t really make me a good mom or wife, now does it? I’d love for it to go away, but it isn’t going away. I haven’t wanted to blog about it, because really who wants to hear me whine, even if it is my blog. Gah.
Anyway, I fried myself at the lake today. I sun screened everyone before we left, but forgot to pack it to do myself once we got there. I’m sure I’ll be paying for it later.
And our Black Mamba is STILL living under our front porch. A call to the Inland Fisheries and Wildlife Department confirmed what we already knew~leave it alone and educate the kids about it. It’s baby time for the snakes, so we may have snake babies before too long. Oh lucky me (if you missed the story about the Black Mamba, go here).
Someone stole our road sign. A sign that we paid for. A sign on a very large metal post. They stole the post too. Bastards. Considering that we cannot be found on Mapquest or Google Maps because we are a private road, it makes getting people here just that much more difficult now. Bastards.
I just re-read my blog and despite the fact that I want to delete this post, I’m not going to. Instead, I’m going to find some tissues and blow my nose for the zillionth time today and rest my weary head.