It’s been a lousy few days here, with the kids succumbing to some sort of a quick flu virus. My plans with friends here at the house on Saturday had to be canceled as Meg was up all night vomiting. We thought the other kids were spared, but Sunday night at 11:15 Izzie got up to be sick, and Annie joined her at 4 am. Drew joined the party today. It’s a very short virus, which is nice, but enough already. We’ve already had the flu, swine or not, plus Meg and I had strep throat. I’m quite done with this winter, thank you very much.
Meg’s birthday is Saturday. She is NOT having a friend party, save her one good friend B who is coming over for the family party. After all my deliberating, she really could have cared less about what we did. At that, I’m a little dumbstruck. She was the one who went on and on about wanting her friends to come to a party, then when I told her that it wasn’t happening, she didn’t really care. We had a “discussion” (which means that I talked, she ignored me, and life went on) about how her inability to control her attitude and behavior was the reason for not inviting friends over, and she just blew me off. So, family party it is on Saturday, complete with a heart-shaped cake.
Potty training is NOT going well. Considering that I’ve already potty trained two kids, you think I’d be able to work with the girls, but quite frankly, they chose to do their own thing. Izzie does a much better job than Annie, who is perfectly content to pee in her pull-up or diaper. I think that I’m going to have to resort to plain old undies and lots of clothing changes to get them to pay attention. This method disturbs me to no end (whatever the hell that means) as I already do enough laundry, but I’m kind of at a loss otherwise.
The girls are doing great sleeping in their toddler beds. They no longer nap, unless we go somewhere in the car. If they nap in the car though, they won’t go to sleep at night. Double edged sword. Oh, and when they’re done sleeping in the morning (even if it’s 5), they get up, tear all the bedding off their beds, yell, scream and play in their closet, waking up the whole house. Frustrated isn’t even the best word to describe how I feel about this. There is no way of getting them to understand that they need to stay in their bed; they just DO NOT LISTEN.
Anyone have any ideas on how to get my loving 5 year old son back? He’s been replaced by a foul-mouthed (as in, I HATE YOU MOMMY), whining, crying monster. He throws toys, screams and throws himself to the ground all damn day long. When he’s in a good mood he’s loving, kind, plays nicely with everyone, but then WHAM he gets nasty. Of course since that’s how his older sister acts ALL the time, it’s hard for him to learn otherwise.
Lately I’ve been wishing myself away from all of the crap of raising my kids. I mentally (and sadly, sometimes verbally) lament having to change diapers, do laundry, make lunches/snack/dinner, clean cat boxes. I feel overwhelmed and under loved. I literally want to throw myself on the floor, kick my feet and scream that I don’t wanna do it. How awful is that? So then I beat myself up for feeling angry with THEM, when it’s not their fault. They’re just kids after all, and I would do well to remember that.
What do you do when you’re feeling overwhelmed?